Category Archives: Military Life & Family

The Pitfalls of Your Parents’ Finances


Have you had the financial independence talk with your parents? (No, I don’t mean the one about college costs and student loans, or the one about helping out with your down payment on your first house.) I’m talking about the … Continue reading

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How I Cost My Dad Over $2000 in Medicare Benefits


[Update:  my father passed away due to Alzheimer’s in November 2017.] It’s been a few months since I posted about Dad. He’s still happy and healthy in the care facility, and he’s a little deeper into mid-stage Alzheimer’s. (In his … Continue reading

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Protecting Your Military Benefits In A Divorce


[Note: some of the details have been edited to hide the reader’s identity.] A reader writes: “In my divorce decree I was awarded part of my husband’s Reserve “disposable military retirement pay”. My portion is 50% of the time for … Continue reading

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Divorce And A Military Reserve Pension


A reader writes: My husband was commissioned after ROTC in August 1966, placed on an educational deferment, and did not start active duty until February 1968. How many retirement points did he earn over that period and where is a … Continue reading

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“I’m setting a good example by working at a job”


I read an interesting forum thread about the conflicts between living life on your terms or meeting society’s expectations. When you reach financial independence and can choose whether or not to work for a paycheck, there may still be other … Continue reading

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